You can now find my paper on the function of the Words of Institution of the Supper at The Theologian.

There are lots of other interesting and useful articles at the site on ethical, pastoral, doctrinal and ecclesiological matters.

A helpful and thought-provoking discussion of this issue and the way churches deal with it and minister to those who struggle with it, can be found here. Well worth a read, whether this is of personal relevance to you or not.

Maybe my American readers can suggest a link to an organisation that does similar ministry in the US to the True Freedom Trust (mentioned in the article)?